MENCAFEP are very aware of the need for ,experienced,
well trained staff, which starts with the learning by giving and doing
philosophy. This leads into the belief that Community Based
Rehabilitation (CBR) is the way forward for disabled children in Sri
Lanka, as well as the rest of the world.
MENCAFEP has always been committed to employing people
from Nuwara Eliya. So in January 1988 when MENCAFEP was founded, the
project looked no further than an unemployed womens group that Ranji and
Chris Stubbs (Co-Founders of MENCAFEP) had formed in a village just
outside Nuwara Eliya Town. Of the 15 to 20 young women who regularly
attended group meetings, three clearly stood out. Shyamalie, Miranda and
Sunetha have been working at MENCAFEP ever since. As the programme has
grown in size from 6 children in 1988 to over a 100 children in 2002,
these women have grown just as much in experience. Has as been proven,
Chris and Ranji thought there was something special about them at the
time. They seemed motivated and interested in helping their community.
When they first started with MENCAFEP they were very
much afraid. Two out the three had never held a job before. More
significantly they had never seen a disabled child. Their ideas about
disabled children were representative of the prevailing view in Sri
Lanka, a predominantly Buddhist and Hindu country where most people
still believe that handicaps are a punishment for misdeeds in a former
life.
Sunetha, for example, was frightened to touch a
handicapped child before coming to MENCAFEP. She thought it might bring
her bad luck. To see her interact with the children today, she is all
smiles and hugs - it’s obvious that her thinking has changed. “Now if
someone talks about bad luck, by touching, being with and working with a
disabled child, I tell them that it is all lies,” says Sunetha.
Shyamalie was eight months pregnant when an elderly
neighbour gave her some unwelcome advice. “She told me to leave MENCAFEP
because it was not a ‘normal’ school,” Shyamalie says, “she said it was
not good for my unborn baby.” A majority of Sri Lankans still consider
mental and physical disabilities contagious. Pregnant women are supposed
to be especially at risk. “It was as though something would rub off on
my unborn baby, from the children I was working with - crazy,” says
Shyamalie. It was not that crazy at the time, but true, Shyamalie and
since then other members of the MENCAFEP family, that have been
pregnant, have been under immense pressure from their families to stay
away from MENCAFEP while pregnant! Imagine, if you can, the stress of
working with disabled children when you or your partner is pregnant. The
community that you are in, are convinced that something twill happen to
your unborn baby, if you continue to be around disabled children. It
takes a very special human being to carry on working until it is time to
give birth - MENCAFEP has those special human beings.
One of the first things many visitors notice about
MENCAFEP, perhaps the thing that leaves the most lasting impression, is
the inhibited genuine love the staff show for the children in their
care. |